Thursday, March 21, 2013

Gender Smells

The other day, I was talking to some corker friends. We were talking about different scents of different things (we work in the food catering business). Eventually, we ended up on the topic of perfumes and colognes. I shared that I got an cologne sample in the mail as a complimentary gift after I placed an order. "It smells so good, but I don't have anyone to give it to! I'm going to spray it on an oversized sweatshirt and wear it myself. People will think it's my boyfriend's." My opinionated coworker expressed how creepy and absurd he found my ingenius idea. He proceeded to tell me I neede to just get a boyfriend if I like men's colognes so much.
   This took my mind on an interesting journey. One of the first questions that came to mind was "What's wrong with me? Why do I prefer some colognes over many selections of perfumes?" As a result of my confusion, I did some informal research. I asked some other girlfriends of mine and discovered I was not alone. Is this a coincidence? Is it a marketing technique supported by society? Why do men's cologne advertisements appeal to females or promise success with the ladies if men wear a certain cologne? Furthermore, why are so many female fragrances based around food, while many male colognes are woodsy and outdoors? Is this a ploy to make women smell like they've been cooking? Who's to say men like to be/ smell like the outdoors?
   In Judith Lorber's article "Night to His Day: The Social Construction of Gender" she states the following: "In the social construction of gender, it does not matter what men and women actually do; it does not even matter if they do exactly the same thing. The social institution of gender insists only that what they do is perceived as different." So do scents fall under this category? Do men and women have to smell differently simply to differentiate between genders? What would happen if we all simply selected our preferred fragrances based on what we like, as opposed to the gender to which they are assigned?

2 comments:

  1. Wow. I never thought of perfumes and colognes in that way before. I knew that man and women were attracted to certain scents but I never thought that companies would use this as a marketing technique. Society has used gender roles as marketing tools before because sex sells; I believe this is why companies are using gender specific perfumes and colognes. Therefore I ask companies why they are confusing gender with sex?

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  2. I always smell men's cologne and basically melt because I love how good it smells too! I actually always made fun of a friend of mine for using men's deodorant instead of female's--she insisted it worked way better , and it did smell really good, but I refused only because it was for men.
    Another interesting thing to build off of your post is the names of perfumes, colognes, and deodorants. Men's are always tough names and female's are always soft. Some examples are...
    Men's: Old Spice Champion, Old Spice After Hours, Old Spice Swagger, Old Spice Game Day, BOD Most Wanted, BOD Warrior, BOD Rock Hard, etc.
    Female's: Brittney Spears Fantasy & Curious, Aero Live Laugh Love, Marc Jacobs Daisy, Philosophy Falling in Love, Vera Wang Princess, etc.
    I think it would be interesting to disguise the exact same cologne in 2 different bottles, one named Hot Shot and the other named Love Struck and ask men which they like better. Same with women's perfume--have the same exact one in 2 different bottles, one named Irresistible and one named Play Maker and see which one they like better. I feel like the name would make an impact.

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